Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Emerson's Grand Arrival

It was Tuesday morning and I knew I was going to be having my baby soon, even though it was a week before his due date. I called my mom, who wasn't supposed to be coming until Saturday, and told her I had been having light contractions all night and that they were slowly becoming stronger. We chatted a little bit longer about more of the nitty gritty details and ultimately decided she needed to change her flight ASAP so she would be here in time for the baby to come.

Even though I was having contractions I was having major nesting feelings, so, chaperoned by Jordan, we washed 3 cars, organized the bathroom, and finished up organizing the nursery. By the end of all that I was exhausted so we called it quits and "relaxed." At about 8:00 that night contractions were, what I thought, pretty strong so we decided to go to the hospital. When we got there I was only 3 cm dilated. The nurses suggested that we do some walking, so we walked. I'll spare you all the details, but in a nutshell, I had my water broken, labored for about 9 hours, and was finally ready to push. By the time my nurse said it was okay to push I not only wanted him out, but needed him out. I started pushing and knew that everything was going to happen pretty fast and furious. It took maybe 10 pushes and he was out! He arrived at 5:35 a.m weighing in at 6 lbs. 15 oz. and 21 in. long. When the nurses put him on my chest it was truly the most magical moment in my life, right after my wedding day. My son was finally here. After waiting three-quarters of a year, he was finally here and I was finally able to look at my baby boy.





 Oh my sweet baby Emerson!







I never knew how empty my life was until I had Emerson. He is my sweet little snuggle bug. He is my pride and my joy, he is my sweet little man.

Baby Shower

Before Emerson was born I was fortunate to have two fantastic baby showers thrown for me! One by my cousin Becky and one by my MIL, Marlys. Both were well attended by phenomenal women I admire and love.

Here are a few pictures from the shower thrown by my cousin, Becky.


Yes, we did fondue! 




I was completely spoiled!


The whole gang (minus a couple)


Omo and Aunt Heidi


 My fabulous friend Katherine


Another gem, Anastasia 


All the cousins


Marlys and Kylie


The Hostess


This is my favorite picture from the day!!

Unfortunately we didn't get any pictures of the shower my mother-in-law threw for me, but it was just as fun as my first shower! I want to give a special thanks to Becky and Marlys for taking the time to plan and throw me the festive showers. I'd also like to say thank you thank you to all that came and celebrated the beginning of a new life, our little Emerson.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Making Our Very Own Headboard

I've been wanting to make my own headboard for about a year now. I saw a few posts on Pinterest that sparked my curiosity and my creativity and so I decided a headboard would be one of my first projects when we eventually moved into our own home. 

Jordan's dad is a really talented wood worker and so I decided to talk to him about different headboard designs and the like. Apparently my desire and drive to make a headboard gushed out when I spoke with him because for Christmas Jordan's parents so generously gave us the gift of a headboard...well more specifically, they offered to pay for the materials to make a headboard!! I was over the moon excited and could not WAIT to get started, but first I had to do all the research, all the math, cost analysis, and everything like that. Now, I am in no way, shape, or form a professional or even an amateur at re-upholstery. Yes, I do work at JoAnn's and have consulted on many projects, but this was my first big project and it really was a group effort to get it done. **Shout out to my patient husband and fantastic father-in-law.** In my opinion, there isn't a right or wrong way to do a project like this, as long as you like the end product.

These are the steps we took to achieve our beautiful headboard:

Step 1: Planning, planning, planning!

This was the step that honestly took me the longest (when it comes to "big and important" projects..I'm kind of indecisive).  The most basic starting step is to figure out what you want your headboard to look like, see figure below.


Theses are just a few examples of what you could do. Originally I loved the Portman style, but ended up nixing that and going with the Cleveland shape.

Once you have your shape picked out, the real planning begins. I researched the process of making a headboard from scratch for hours upon hours and could not for the life of me find any measurements for a king-sized mattress, so I had to come up with them on my own. I'm not going to post a picture of what my "plans" looked like because looking back at them, I can hardly make sense of them...I blame it on my pregnancy mind then!

Anyways, measurements for my headboard for my king-size bed: 79" long by 57" tall (at the tallest point, which was the middle hump). These measurements allowed for the actual headboard to be about 79" long by 42". On each side of the mattress there is a 3" overhang. More on the details and construction later.

If you don't have a king-sized bed or you think this might be too big for what you are wanting to do, then you'll need to do a little math and figure out the measurements you'd prefer. This is a good launching point for you though! After you figure out your measurements, you'll need to plan out materials and how much of each material you'll need. While researching I came across several tutorials (I'll post the ones I found most helpful at the end of this post) with lots of different materials you could use. You just have to find what you're willing to spend and work around that.

The materials I used were:
- 2 sheets of plywood (4' X 8') - ~$15
- 2 metal brackets - $1.00
- a box of screws - $5.00
- a staple gun (if you don't already have one you can pick one up and a box of a bazillion staples for no more than $30)
- 4 yards foam padding - $30.00
- 2 yards batting - already had on hand
- 2 yards 90" muslin - $6.00
- 3 yards fabric - $60.00
- 1 spool nail head trim - $10.00
- spray adhesive - already had on hand

Now, when I purchased this stuff it was either on sale or I used a coupon to discount it. I also work at JoAnn's and so I had my employee discount, but you can keep a look out for transaction discounts that would give you the same discount or even a little bit better discount on the entire transaction (assuming you are shopping at JoAnn's!). If you aren't in any type of rush, you can slowly gather the items you need based on when the best coupons come out...just an idea!

Step 2: Construction

Jordan and my father-in-law did a ton of this work...I was mostly just the "foreman" overlooking the project and making sure there was no slacking off! ;)

Once you have figured out the shape and size you want your headboard to be you will want to make a template for the top.


Take a big piece of cardboard and draw the left half of your top. As you can tell, I had to go at it a few times to get it how I wanted it. When you are happy with the shape, cut out your template.


After your template is cut out you will find the middle point of your plywood (or middle point of your headboard measurement), lay down your template, draw your shape, then flip your piece of cardboard over and draw the right side of your headboard. Doing this insures that you have the exact same shape on the left and the right side of your headboard. I don't know about you, but if I free handed the entire length of the template I would have one severely wonky looking top curve!


If you squint, you can see where we traced our template onto our plywood. It's there, I promise! After you have traced your template on, cut the wood!


Once we cut out the main body of our headboard we needed to add the border (for the nail head trim to nail into) and the legs.


To make the legs, we cut pieces of wood, 4" wide, and set them up flush against the bottom of the headboard, took our metal brackets, and screwed the main body and the short little legs together on the back. We knew that those little leggies would not hold the heavy body of the headboard so we used another set of boards, again cut 4" wide, to reinforce the legs AND also create the frame for the trim to eventually go in.


We used a boatload of screws...can ya tell?


The tops of the reinforcing wood needed to be shaved down to size.

I didn't get a ton of pictures of us creating the frame because believe you me...it was an ordeal. Between Jordan's dad, Jordan, and myself we were able to create the rest of the frame for the body of the headboard. It didn't turn out perfectly symmetrical in some spots, but it didn't need to be because we still had to cover it and I knew that all the layers of fabric would muffle the small mistakes in the wood. Really the only important thing here is that our frame was 4" wide all the way around the headboard. Why did you put a frame on the headboard? Well, I knew I wanted trim. In my opinion it really makes a headboard look polished and nicely finishes it off. If you don't think you want to bother with nail head trim then there is no need to bother with a frame. Why a 4" frame? I planned on nailing in trim 3" in and wanted to give myself plenty of wiggle room.


Jordan screwing in the final screws...mainly because I couldn't get all the way down on the ground in my pregnant condition. ;)


The headboard body complete, just some minor sanding to make the shape nice and smooth.



Step 3: Covering the darn thing with fabric

Alright, deep breath! We've got the "construction" of the headboard complete! Yahoo! Now we need to get it covered and looking good.

The first step is to go fabric shopping! For us, this was much easier said than done...if you know what I mean ladies... **A quick note: when you are shopping for the fabric and there is a pattern on it, you want to make sure the pattern is railroaded. Railroaded means the pattern repeats horizontally not vertically. If the pattern repeats vertically you will most likely not be able to use it for your headboard. See below.**


When you go to the fabric store you will need to get more than just the pretty fabric...you'll need to get the guts of it all, aka the foam padding, the batting, and the muslin (optional).


Here are the guts.

When shopping for your foam padding I have a couple words to the wise. More than likely you will have a couple options as to the product you'll buy. Option one is a high density foam, as seen here. This foam comes in varying thicknesses, is very cushy, and tends to be on the expensive side. Option two is a product called NuFoam. It looks like really really thick batting but it is considered a foam/ It also comes in varying thicknesses, and is cushy, but it is a much cheaper alternative to the high density stuff. I didn't feel like our headboard needed the ultra cushy high density foam so Jordan and I went with the NuFoam. I would encourage you to go to your local craft/fabric store and feel the difference for yourself.

Next on your list is the batting and the muslin. The purpose of the batting is 1) to give your headboard just a teensy bit more cushion, 2) to put a layer in between your pretty fabric and the wood of the headboard, and 3) to smooth or blur your foam so you don't have any hard lines in the finished product. I had all my batting on hand so I didn't need to purchase any, but I do have some suggestions. In my opinion the prepackaged batting is the best/cheapest way to go. Take the measurements of your headboard and add about 4"-6" to the width and the length (this ensures that you have enough to wrap around the bottom/sides/top and still have plenty of room to staple the material to the back) and you'll have the measurements you need to get close to in your prepackaged batting. I would recommend something like this or this...again people, personal preference! Or if you really want to, you can purchase it by the yard if none of the prepackaged stuff fits your measurements. (No need to overbuy anything!) Another item you need is muslin. Muslin is just a basic cotton fabric. The muslin is going to go right over top of your batting. Why muslin? We chose to use the muslin because we were really able to smooth everything out and staple and unstaple the batting and the muslin to make sure we didn't have any bubbles or lumps before we put on the expensive fabric. It is like putting primer on before you actually paint the walls. 

Alright, so now that you have your materials, now it is time to get your staple gun out and go. to town.


Cut your foam to fit inside your frame. Lift your foam out of the frame, grab your can of spray adhesive, and spray, spray, spray where your foam was. Reposition foam inside the frame. Now your foam should be secured to the wood and ready to be covered.


Put your batting on. We found it easiest to lay your batting on the floor and place your headboard on top of it. Staple the sides and stand up. If you are doing anything other than a square you'll need to stand your headboard up so you can get a good look at the way the fabric is laying around the curves. Make sure your batting is nice and tight!


In order to avoid puckering, bumps, and bubbles, we mangled the batting and muslin on the back. Cutting the strips like that really helped...there is no way we could have gotten as smooth of a look as we did without manhandling that stuff! Meh...no one sees it and at the end you cut all those tails off anyway.


Put your muslin on using the same process as before. Make sure your muslin is nice and tight!


Now for the important part...the pretty fabric!


As you can see here, we fut a few staples in the sides, but not the top and bottom to make sure when we pulled the fabric nice and tight on the top and bottom that it wouldn't jack with the straightness (is that a word?) of the pattern. You'll want to be vigilant of this throughout the tugging and pulling and stapling process!


Almost done! Only trim left to put on!!


If you like the look of trim there are two ways to do it: the easy way and the hard way. The easy way is by purchasing a spool of nailhead trim. The hard way is by purchasing 5 gazillion individual tacks and hammering them in one by stinking one. I said phoowee to the individual tacks and went with the spool of nailhead trim. With the spool you're only nailing in one tack every five spots or so and the finished product looks just as great as individual tacks taking up only a fraction of the time. Plus, when using individual tacks there is a higher margin of crookedness. At any rate, you'll want to pull your ruler out and really make sure that you are consistent with the width you are using. Since my wooden frame was 4" thick, I put my trim 3" in from the side. If you really want to, and I did do this because I'm so anal, you can use tailor's chalk to mark on your fabric where your nails need to go.




Voila! 



And there you have it people! Our finished and quite beautiful product!

My parting words would be these, as with any project big or small, make sure to do your research, plan, but most of all have fun creating!

As promised, here are a few sites that I found helpful and informative.

Sunday, February 2, 2014

36 Week Pregnancy Update




How far along? 36 weeks

Total weight gain: I've gained a total of probably 30-ish pounds. I'm amazed at that number! Other than the obvious weight gain in my stomach, my body has pretty much stayed the same...I'm sure I'll realize where all the extra weight is all "hiding" after the baby is born.

Maternity clothes? Holy cow yes! Now that I am am almost done and am the biggest I've even been I find that stretchy yoga pants and my biggest lounging t-shirts are the most comfortable, although even those are getting to be on the constricting side! Gah!

Stretch marks? Unfortunately yes. I had some on my sides and those have gone up in number and I did find a couple small ones next to my belly button the other day....sad! I broke down and bought some Bio-Oil the other day. I know I'll probably get more stretch marks, but I'm hoping the Bio-Oil will at least help a little!

Sleep: As with the rest of my pregnancy some nights are better than others. I wake up quite often to adjust sleep positions, which is either my right side or my left side, both are uncomfortable. I'm a tummy sleeper and I can't wait for this lil babe to be here so that I can get back to sleeping on my tummy, when I can get some sleep. More and more often though I am getting only a few hours of sleep during the night and then just rest or take naps during the day.

Best moment this week:  This week when I went to the doctor she was very pleased with the way he sounded, the amount of weight I've gained, and really enthusiastic about my last few weeks. It made me feel great to know everything is going well! I also have gotten a couple massages over the past few weeks and they have been a true God send!

Miss anything? I miss being able to bend over comfortably, for example: shaving, picking up the socks off the ground, tying my shoes, pulling up my pants, getting a good wipe (ladies you KNOW what I'm talking about), sitting at the computer, and the list could go on.

Movement: Very much so! There are days where he is a bump on a log and then there are other days where he is a little ninja. His favorite place to hang out is up in my ribs. I've realized when he starts getting kick crazy, all I need to do it rub my belly, or essentially him, and he will calm down and quit gettin up in my grill!

Food cravings: No dire cravings, but if I see something that looks good I can't NOT get it or else I will crave it!

Anything making you queasy or sick: This pregnancy I haven't had any trigger smells or anything and I'm far enough in that most of that queasy feelings have dissipated. I have, however, been having monster cases of heartburn! :(

Gender: It's a boy! Can't wait to meet my little prince!

Labor signs: Now, since this is the first time I've had to really pay attention to whether or not I've got labor signs I'm going to have to say no. I've been having cramping, but at random times and for no significant period of time. Braxton Hicks I'm sure, but nothing to really note.

Symptoms: This past week I think I reached a "special" point in my pregnancy. For the majority of my pregnancy I've been very level headed and haven't had too many emotional ups and down, but this last week ended that. Most of the time when I'm home I don't know what I want to do, to make, to eat, anything. On top of that there are times when all I want to do is just cry....for no reason at all, just cry. Weird! Still no bloating or swelling, thank heavens. I have raging heartburn, mostly at night. I have been very forgetful lately, coming up with simple words is a constant battle and it is only getting worse! It is getting harder and harder to reach something on the floor or get up off the couch! 

Belly button in or out? For now, the majority of my belly button is in, but there is a small part that is beginning to protrude a little bit...it sure is putting up a good fight!

Wedding rings on or off? AHHH!! I've been dreading this question! I had to take my wedding ring and my other ring off and replace them with bigger sized rings. That lasted all of a week and now my fingers are screaming at me to take off all rings all the time! Bummer!

Happy or moody most of the time: I am happy most of the time, but I did mention before that I'm always in a crying mood. I have noticed that I am a little snappier than usual. Sorry Jordan! :(

Looking forward to: In a week I will be having a second baby shower and I am SO excited for that! I'm excited to see what we get so that we can finally put the finishing touches on the nursery! My mom will be flying down in 2 weeks 6 days.....yes, I'm counting down!! She will be here for 10 days and I could not be happier, it will be the longest period of time I've spent with here in probably 2 years at least. And finally, I am so excited for this little baby boy to come. Very frequently I find myself turning to Jordan and saying "isn't it crazy we are going to have a little baby?!" I say it so often because I am still blown away at how very soon there will be the 3 of us, not 2, but 3!! It really is mind blowing!